Don’t try to follow a ‘hunger-fullness’ diet
Intuitive eating’s growing popularity can be seen in the recent explosion of information about it in books and on blogs, podcasts and social media, but not all of that information is accurate. New York dietitian Christy Harrison, host of the Food Psych Podcast and author of the forthcoming book Anti-Diet, said discussion of intuitive eating in popular culture tends to boil down to the concept of eating when you’re hungry, stopping when you’re full and avoiding emotional eating.
A truly peaceful relationship with food is about self-care, not self-control.
It’s not surprising that intuitive eating is often considered a hunger-fullness diet because “most people are so used to looking at things in a black-and-white sense,” said New York dietitian and certified intuitive eating counsellor Alissa Rumsey. “With intuitive eating, you need to learn to embrace the grey area. Only eating when you’re hungry is not feasible.”
As Tribole points out, “honour your hunger” and “feel your fullness” are only two of the 10 intuitive-eating principles she and Resch created for their 1995 book, Intuitive Eating: A Revolutionary Program That Works. “You can’t cherry-pick the principles,” she says.
The other principles are “make peace with food,” “challenge the food police,” “discover the satisfaction factor,” “cope with emotions without using food,” “respect your body,” “exercise – feel the difference,” “honour your health with gentle nutrition,” and notably the first principle is “reject the diet mentality.”
“It’s about changing your mind-set and recognising, then stepping away from, the internalised beliefs that come from diet culture,” said Harrison. For example, she said, many people are still “dieting” without realising it, restricting their food choices in the pursuit of health instead of weight loss.
Be open to feeling a little chaotic at first
One common fear people have when they start to explore intuitive eating is that if they allow themselves to eat formerly off-limits foods, they’ll never be able to stop. Tribole said this is understandable. “When someone fears that they’re never going to stop eating their favourite food, it’s probably because they’ve been deprived of it for so long,” she said. “If you come to intuitive eating really hungry, it’s easy to be afraid that you’re never going to stop eating.”
Harrison said the radical desire to eat, say, cookies, will eventually lessen, even though the pendulum swing from restriction to freedom is going to feel wild and chaotic at first. “It’s worth a few months, or however long it takes, of feeling a little chaotic if you want to have a balanced relationship with food that’s going to last decades,” she said.
After years of dieting, it can be hard to tune back into the body’s signals, Harrison said. Intuitive eating’s “unconditional permission to eat is a gentle way back into that,” she said.
She suggested thinking about “what sounds good, what tastes good, what brings me pleasure and joy. Then, come back to how foods are sitting with you. It’s important to let yourself get enough food, and enough varieties of food, first.”
Untangle nutrition from dieting
One of the intuitive-eating principles is “honour your health with gentle nutrition,” but once people start practicing intuitive eating, they often worry that they’re doing it wrong, or that “diet mind” is creeping back in when they want broccoli, salmon and quinoa instead of a cheeseburger and fries.
“Intuitive eaters don’t apologise for eating a doughnut or a salad,” Tribole said. “But the confusion is understandable.” People should ask themselves, “What’s the intention behind the desire to eat a healthy food? If the intention is to shrink your body, then that’s a clue that diet mind is at play,” she said.
Other clues are the presence of guilt or fear. “If there’s any of that feeling of, ‘If I don’t eat that broccoli, I’m going to ruin my health, or I’m going to gain weight,’ those are clues that diet mentality is creeping in,” Harrison said. She points out that choosing the broccoli can be an act of self-care. “Maybe you’ve noticed that when you include a few servings of vegetables, you feel more energetic and your digestion works better. A truly peaceful relationship with food is about self-care, not self-control.”
Give intuitive eating time to feel intuitive
Tribole said that although there are 10 intuitive-eating principles, they are not absolute rules. “There’s no such thing as pass or fail; there’s learning and discovering,” she said. “So, you overate at lunch. Let’s see what happens. Maybe you don’t feel hungry for an afternoon snack; maybe you aren’t as hungry at dinner. Ultimately, it’s not satisfying to undereat, and it’s usually not satisfying to overeat, but you get to decide.”
Ultimately, said Tribole, “it’s about putting the pleasure back in food and about healing your relationship with food, mind and body so you can live your best life.”
Dennett is a registered dietitian, author of Healthy for Your Life: A Holistic Approach to Optimal Wellness
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